What it Takes to Be a Winner

"If you continue to do what you've always done,you quit.
you will continue to get what you've always got!"The great Ghandi taught: "If one advances toward a
Yogi Berraspecified objective or goal, and does not lose 'belief'
It is easy to be a loser. All you have to do after youin its attainment; even though they may start their
failed at something is to continue the patterns andjourney without the necessary tools or knowledge of
thoughts that created your personal conditions ofhow to get there; if they keep their faith and focus
failure and lack of achievement. It really is that simple.they shall most assuredly obtain the required tools
Most people are scared of the challenges that beingand knowledge along the way."
successful will bring, or they just lack the willpower toLet's look at the differences between winners and
do what it takes to be successful. The realizationlosers:
that they are going to fail again creates anxiety andA winner says: "Let's find out"
emotional unrest which most people don't like andA loser says: "nobody knows"
they return quickly to the familiar world of excusesWhen a winner makes a mistake, he says: "I was
and justifications.wrong."
Unless the cycle of thought patterns is broken inWhen a loser makes a mistake he says: "It wasn't
those who fail, they will experience a lower quality ofmy fault."
life that lacks the good things in life that comes withA winner goes through a problem and deals with it.
success. The truth is: nobody is born a success, andA loser goes around a problem, and never gets past
nobody is born a failure. Losers learn from theit.
mainstream: Negative thoughts and negative actions.A winner makes commitments.
Winners learn from other winners, change theirA loser makes promises
thoughts accordingly, and do their best to copy theirA winner says: "I am good, but not as good as I
actions.ought to be."
Losers say: "Don't dream! Dreaming is impractical. OnlyA loser says: "I am not as bad as a lot of other
fools dream. We are in reality! One should stay in thepeople."
real world!" Winners, on the other hand, dream andA winner tries to learn from those who are superior
dream big. The great King Solomon said over 3000to him/her.
years ago. "Unless people dream they perish." Did heA loser tries to tear down those who are superior to
mean dream when you sleep? No! He meant onehim/her.
should have a firm goal or objective to achieve.A winner says: "There ought to be a better way to
If we dream and do not believe that we willdo it."
accomplish our dreams, the dream becomes just anA loser says: "That's the way it has always been
idle wish, and will never be attained. On the otherdone."
hand if we remember and do what Napoleon Hill said,A winner says: "I will find the right people who can
we will never fail. He said: "Effort only fully releaseshelp me."
its reward after a person refuses to quit."A loser says: "I will do it myself."
The following is an example of someone who didn'tA winner looks for an answer in every problem.
quit. See how many times he "failed."A loser looks for a problem in every answer.
PORTRAIT OF AN ACHIEVER - Abraham LincolnA winner says: "I will do it now!"
1831 - FAILED IN BUSINESS, BANKRUPTCYA loser says: "I will do it later."
1832 - DEFEATED FOR LEGISLATUREA winner says: "I will quit trying and simply do."
1834 - FAILED IN BUSINESS, BANKRUPTCYA loser says: "I will keep trying."
1835 - FIANCE DIESA winner says: "I will create my own good luck."
1836 - NERVOUS BREAKDOWNA loser says: "I might get lucky."
1838 - DEFEATED FOR U.S. CONGRESSA winner makes things happen.
1846 - DEFEATED AGAIN FOR U.S. CONGRESSA loser lets things happen.
1848 - DEFEATED ONCE AGAIN FOR U.S.Now you can see that winners make different
CONGRESSchoices than losers. They think different thoughts,
1855 - DEFEATED FOR U.S. SENATEbelieve different things, adopt different attitudes, and
1856 - DEFEATED FOR U.S. VICE PRESIDENCYtherefore produce different results in their lives. Now
1858 - DEFEATED AGAIN FOR U.S. SENATEyou have the choice to look at the above attitudes,
1860 - ELECTED 16TH PRESIDENT OF THE UNITEDand decide which you want to be; a winner, or a
STATES OF AMERICAloser. The choice is yours.
From the above it is clear that you can't fail unless